Having your friend get married a week before you can do many different things. 1. put a lot of stress on you. 2. be a major party or 3. become a complete competition. I have found it to be a little bit of each. The first thing to hit you is competition. Who gets what done first, how they did it and how fast they did it. Next is the stress that hits you because the other person has either gotten what you had plan to do this week done two weeks ago, or you're having to change your plans because you jumped at the first thing that seemed to be good because you wanted to get it done before the other person. The next and greatest thing to hit you is the amazing party that it is. Having a friend that understand how you feel and the stress your feeling is a great help. Not to mention the bachelorette party. It's so much fun to be able to tease someone and then get teased right back. It also adds to the experience being happy for not only yourself but being so happy for someone else at the same time.
Being LDS and endowed the night before it was such an amazing and wonderful experience to be able to go to her temple wedding and to be there to support her and her husband felt so wonderful. It was also very nice to be able to see one before your own just so you know what to expect.
One thing me and me and my fiance noticed is how big of a day it really is. We didn't even do anything but show up for the temple, find the luncheon (in a white out snow storm might I add) and show up to the reception when we so wished.
Our day is going to be a long day but I know, not just from viewing this wedding, that it's the right thing that is taking place in the right place and that no matter what happens it's all going to be worth it to spend the rest of eternity with my future husband.
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